A Chama Violeta (The Violet Flame)

You didn’t come to earth for sameness. You came for the contrast. You came to dip your toes in a delicious reality of differences and sort through them, finding your heart in the mix. And then, after all this stimulus, you were determined to create. You knew that you would tune yourself to dreams as yet undreamt and, therefore call the unseen love into physical reality.

You are part of ongoing creation!

Nonetheless, being human is challenging when you witness people who rub you the wrong way, doing things you can’t imagine doing, and saying things you can’t even comprehend. While there is much more to enjoy and appreciate on your planet, the ones you don’t enjoy seem to grab the spotlight of your attention far too easily.  We know this frustrates many of you. You’d rather think about your best friend than an unpleasant ex. You’d rather focus on your child than the person ranting on the news. You’d rather be in the garden than worry about what you saw on social media this morning.

You all prefer to feel good.

As sensitive souls, you feel the tugs and pulls of others’ desires, and it takes practice to learn that you can tune out the noise.  Generally, it is not positive people doing positive things who try to command your attention.  Those who contribute to the world offer their services, products, and ideas, hoping to attract your attention, rather than demanding it

More often than not, the insecure, fearful, and angry souls are the ones ttrying to command your attention. They want someone to keep them company in their current state of being. You can feel their desire for agreement and their need to have you validate their pain.

Have compassion for anyone in this space. Share love and kindness with them if you are inspired to do so, and move away when you are not.

However, dear ones, as masters of your own focus, you need not “tune” your energy where they are tuned. You can choose to tune into love, kindness, compassion, ot tune into anything else that feels better when you cannot.

It will take some practice to stay in your vibration of choice. Most of you are well-practiced in the art of pleasing others rather than pleasing the spirit of love within.

Even the most wonderful, well-meaning souls with good things to offer would like you to pay attention to their words and wares. They may offer wonderful wisdom and good products, but if you want something else you will feel the tension between your desire and theirs—unless you have become very strong and centered in your own point of view. This inner tug of war manifests as doubts in your own inner knowing and feelings of confusion.

For example, say you want to accomplish a task but get caught scrolling past one video after the next. These things aren’t necessarily bad, but instead of doing what you wanted to do, you get drawn into paying attention to what someone else wants you to focus on. You may feel frustrated when you realize an hour has gone by. Grant yourself grace. Refocus and move forward.

You may want a brief overview of the news, but a dramatic story draws you in and upsets you. Again, time to back up, tune into something kinder, and regain the vibration you intended to have throughout your day.

You want to enjoy some quiet time, but the one person in your life with complaints calls you. You feel yourself going to answer as if a magnet pulls you. It is ok to turn off the ringer on your phone and answer later!

In these and so many other ways, you find your attention wandering and not always where you wanted it to be. And here is a subtle but important note in your process of manifesting…

The topic you are focusing on matters less than the vibration it inspires within you.

You’ve heard the saying, “Energy flows where attenion goes.” You may be manifesting a wonderful partner, but if your attention is going toward all the people you consider crazy and who upset you, your vibration will be all muddied up with a mixture of hope and disgust. Look for the good people in the world and enjoy them. Appreciate your life and your friends. Enjoy your day. In this way, you attune to a harmonious life and harmonious relationships.

Likewise, you may be manifesting vibrant health, but if you focus on fixing your illness, talk about your illness, and endlessly research ways to prevent the illness, you may become so tired, confused, or fearful that you dilute your vibration of well-being. Far better to read a good book, take a walk,spend time with your animals, or watch an inspiring video. Theset hings put you in a good vibration which allows you desired well-being.

No matter what the world or circumstances around you are doing, your attention, your calibration, and your thoughts, filters, and focus that ultimately control your vibration. 

So, as you look at the world, change your focus as often as you need to maintain a kinder vibration. Either focus on things, beings, and situations that raise you up, or think more elevating thoughts.

Even if you are stuck in a situation that does not feel good, use your attention to focus on something better in either your inner or outer world. In every situation, dear ones, you can focus your attention on something that bothers you or something that uplifts you.

Focusing in a way that feels good is much easier when faced with pleasant, cooperative individuals, but as you strive to practice shifting your attention and focusing on what feels better, you can master the ability to become the tuner you are, thus sifting and sorting through all the different energetic offerings on your planet, and deciding which ones you will embrace to attract new and wonderful situations into your life.