A Chama Violeta (The Violet Flame)

We often talk about how you create your personal reality. You don’t create the reality of other people. You aren’t solely responsible for the creations of the mass consciousness. Nor are you responsible for the choices, vibrations, and creations of other individuals. Your vibration will, however, define your experience of the external reality around you and what is allowed to flow into your life in the future.

You can, however, regularly tune into good-feeling vibrations. In so doing, you will be guided around the creations of the mass consciousness and into kinder realities. No matter what anyone around you chooses—consciously or otherwise—you can tap into what feels good and what you can appreciate now. In so doing, you rise above the discomfort and back into a state of flow.

For example, the smoldering anger and flaming passion for various beliefs on your planet may be reflected in fires, but in a higher vibe you are guided to safety. Even if all you own is destroyed, you will be assisted in resurrecting your life with grace, in love, and in a way that gives you an even better reality than the one left behind.

If you can find the frequency and feeling of love even when you are far outside your comfort zone, you will be guided into an even more beautiful reality.

We know this is hard to even imagine in tough circumstances. When you lose a loved one, you did not create their transition from the earth, and yet it affects you deeply. Yet, even under these circumstances, there is an opportunity for forward motion. Even in the face of unthinkable loss, your dear ones beckon you forward on your eternal journey with them. They have expanded into unimaginable love and want to share their newfound bliss. As you allow yourself to feel, heal, and reach beyond your previous comfort zone, and as you allow yourself to imagine a life in partnership with their magnificent spirit, you will gradually begin to have that experience. You and they, together, will become like two ends of a bridge between heaven and earth and in this space, so much more becomes available to you.

When you venture outside your comfort zone by choice, you will enjoy new opportunities and new experiences.  When you find yourself catapulted outside of your comfort zone, take a moment to acknowledge your feelings and grieve, cry, rage, or do whatever you need to do at the human level to release your shock. And then, dear ones, when you are able, imagine a life resurrected. Imagine more than you had before. Imagine more love, more grace, more ease, more flow. Give thanks for what you can. Enjoy what small things you can. Set your sights on the reality you wish to see arising from the ashes, the divorce, or the sudden loss. Imagine a better future. Surrender to the moment, time and again, trusting the Divine to guide you step-by-step into a better reality.

Beyond the comfort zone there is always a grander reality. Beyond the loss is expansion. Beyond the death is new life. Beyond your fears of being hurt, there is love. Beyond your sense of inadequacy, you will find your magnificence. Beyond your feelings of lack, there is a reality where what you want will flow straight to you. Beyond your discomfort of being alone lies a sense of connection that is so amazing the love will elevate you in ways you never dreamed.

You need not be in severe discomfort to grow, although that certainly does catalyze growth. You need not push yourself too far outside your comfort zone to create what you desire. You simply need to “inch” yourself out of your comfort zone towards what you say you want.

Give up one complaint this week and replace it with one thought of appreciation. Give up one excuse for not doing something you truly want to do.  Take the smallest of steps towards something you want.  In this fashion, you can slowly but surely become more comfortable with the unknown or the unfamiliar. And if life has catapulted you into an extremely uncomfortable situation, take heart, feel your hearts, sit with your angels for comfort. Dare to dream of the expansion that your never-ending, eternal soul will guide you towards.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.