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Sítio dedicado à filosofia humana, ao estudo e conhecimento da verdade, assim como à investigação. ~A Luz está a revelar a Verdade, e a verdade libertar-nos-á! ~A Chama Violeta da Transmutação

20.01.25

Humanity is Being Shaken Awake

The Pleiadian Council of Light

By Chellea Wilder

Posted on January 20, 2025

 

 
 

Greetings beloved ones, we are the Pleiadian Council of Light.

We enjoy connecting with you. Thank you for this transmission.

Major transformation is unfolding in these pivotal moments that all of Humanity are both witnessing and experiencing collectively. This transformation is multi-faceted, encompassing not only the awareness of our presence as Galactic Races, but also the profound shifts occurring in the realm of human conflict. The calming of wars and conflicts signifies a broader movement towards peace and understanding. Moreover, you are beginning to see disclosures emerging regarding hidden agendas that have long held Humanity captive, shrouded in secrecy and manipulation.

In the backdrop of this significant transformation, we observe chaos manifesting in various forms, such as devastating fires and peculiar weather patterns that are being manipulated for purposes that serve the interests of a few. These chaotic events are not random; they represent attempts to hinder the progress of this monumental transformation. The less aware individuals are, the easier they become targets for manipulation and deception, leading them to accept narratives that may not align with the reality unfolding around them. Those who remain oblivious to the process of Disclosure will inevitably be forced to confront the truth head-on, which can be a jarring experience.

Many individuals have lived in a state of blindness, and as the truth emerges, they will be profoundly shaken awake. This awakening process will compel them to reassess their beliefs and understanding of their reality, prompting a deep internal reckoning. Spiritually, it is important to recognize that most of humanity possesses a fundamentally good heart. They exhibit love for those around them and strive to help others whenever possible. However, a significant number remain unaware of the extensive deception that has been perpetuated around them. This ignorance often stems from a reluctance to confront uncomfortable truths, as doing so would disrupt their established way of thinking and believing.

It is essential to acknowledge that truth is an immutable force, existing independently of personal beliefs. Ignoring the truth does not make it disappear; rather, it highlights a preference for remaining in ignorance instead of advancing in conscious awareness. As the Earth continues to evolve and move forward, those who choose to remain in ignorance will soon discover that once they are confronted with the truth, they cannot unsee it. This revelation will inevitably alter their perspective on life and existence.

Understanding that you are on an inner journey, where the love in your heart is expanding, is crucial. Simultaneously, there is an outer reality that must be navigated with awareness and discernment. Both the inner and outer experiences reflect one another, creating a complex tapestry of the Human experience that is inherently collective. This means that what you observe outside of yourself is also a reflection of the collective consciousness of humanity. It is vital to take the time to address your own personal realities, as this serves as your personal reflection. Your focus on your own manifestations plays a significant role in shaping your experiences.

The collective experiences of humanity, contribute to what can often be perceived as chaos in your reality. With everything unfolding on the world stage, this triggers a wide array of emotions within the collective consciousness, which in turn manifests as the chaos you are witnessing outside of you. It is important to remember, dear Ones, that this chaos is not yours to bear. You have already awakened to the disclosures and truths that many others are just beginning to experience.

As you navigate this transformative period, it is essential to exercise patience with your fellow Humans, as they too are on their journey towards awakening. You are the Beacons of Truth, illuminating the path for others who may still be lost in the shadows of ignorance. Embrace your role as a guide, and continue to radiate love and understanding as the world around you transforms. Your awareness and discernment will not only enhance your personal journey but will also contribute to the collective evolution of humanity, as you all move towards a brighter, more enlightened future.

We Love you, and are here with you.

We are the Pleiadian Council of Light.

Pleiadians of Alcyone.

 
Chellea Wilder

 

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My notes: 
    • God the Source is unconditional love, not a zealous god of [some] dogmatic religions.
    • All articles are the responsibility of the respective authors.
    • My personal opinion: Nobody is more Anti-Semite than the Zionists.


Reminder discernment is recommended
from the heart, not from the mind
 
The Truth Within Us, Will Set Us Free. We Are ONE.
No Need of Dogmatic Religions, Political Parties, and Dogmatic Science, linked to a Dark Cabal that Divides to Reign.
Any investigation of a Genuine TRUTH will confirm IT. 
TRUTH need no protection.
 
Question: Why the (fanatics) Zionists are so afraid of any Holocaust investigations?
 

  
 
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20.09.24

20 Signs of an Abusive Friendship You May Overlook

By Janey Davies, B.A. (Hons)

Posted on September 20, 2024
 
 
Featured image by freepik
 

 
If you’re reading this article, I suspect you’re having doubts about a friend of yours and you want answers. Whilst it’s foolish to think our friends are perfect, we don’t expect to feel used, deflated or drained when we spend time with them.
 
Friendships should be balanced relationships. Good friends provide support and helpful advice. They should have our backs, not stab us in the back. Here are 20 signs of an abusive friendship.
 
20 Signs of An Abusive Friendship
 
1. The friendship is one-sided
 
Whether it’s financial or emotional, we want to help our friends and we try our best. But friends that always receive this help and never reciprocate are abusive, and if they do help, it’s such an enormous deal you don’t ask again. They brush off your problems as insignificant and shift the focus back to their own issues.
 
2. They take financial advantage of you
 
Have you lent money to a friend who never pays it back and always gives some sob story when you ask about it? Do you feel sometimes they ask to borrow money and have no intention of ever paying it back? Are you now afraid to refuse because of the consequences?
 
3. You always give in to them
 
Do their needs always come first? Perhaps your suggestions fall on deaf ears or you always end up doing what your friend wants. It’s so common it’s an unwritten rule in your friendship.
 
4. They rely on you too much
 
Needy friends can be just as toxic as abusive friends.
 
I regularly took my friend shopping every week for years because she was a pensioner and didn’t drive. Once the initial ‘Oh you’re so wonderful for helping me’ ended, she complained I wasn’t taking her to her choice of store, even calling me a b***h and implying I was doing it on purpose to wind her up.
 
5. They don’t like your successes
 
“Every time a friend succeeds, I die a little.” – Gore Vidal
 
Genuine friends don’t envy your success, they’re happy for you. Abusive friends are threatened by your achievements because they don’t have your best interests at heart and it makes them feel worse about their lives.
 
6. But revel in your failures
 
Does your friend only want to hear about your failures? Do they get excited when you tell them you’ve had a bad day? Are they invested in the breakup of your intimate relationship but bored when you’re happy with your partner? This is called fake sympathy and a sign of an abusive friendship.
 
7. They exert passive control over you
 
Abuse can be overt or covert. Someone who is passive aggressive doesn’t want to confront you, but they’ll do little things that wind you up without you noticing.
 
For example, your friend is always late, even though they know it annoys you. Or you always end up paying for lunch, even though your friend earns twice your salary. Or they always give you advice, even when you never ask for it. It’s all control.
 
8. You must agree with everything they say
 
Does your friend get angry when you disagree with them? Or maybe they act as if you’re being cruel and siding against them? They expect you to have the same opinions they do and not agree with other people’s points of view if they’re conflicting.
 
9. It’s all about them
 
Sometimes one friend needs more support than the other, and vice versa. This is the natural ebb and flow of a mutually balanced friendship. But when one person must be the center of attention all the time, it’s a sign of an abusive friendship.
 
Ask yourself the following; do they dominate the conversation? Are you always doing the things they want to do? Are you always supporting them with their problems, but they don’t want to know when you’re in difficulty?
 
10. They damage your belongings
 
Has a friend ‘borrowed’ something of yours and returned it damaged? Perhaps they’ve not returned it at all?
 
I had a friend who asked to borrow my cat box to take her cat to the vet. I’d just bought a new one; it was an enormous bright blue box with two doors and a spot for a water bowl. I lent it to my friend. I didn’t get it back for months.
 
When I had to take my cat to the vet, I asked for it back. My friend gave me a small, dirty, secondhand white cat box. I asked where mine was, and they insisted this was the box I’d lent them. When I disagreed, they said,
 
“Do you want me to buy you a new one?”
 
11. They disrespect your boundaries
 
Friends should respect your boundaries. For example, smoking in your car when you don’t allow it, or always turning up when you’re dishing out dinner and expecting to be fed, or regularly outstaying their welcome. Genuine friends respect your boundaries. They don’t make you afraid of saying no.
 
12. Everything’s a competition with them
 
You could have had the worst day/week/month or year; it won’t matter if you’re in an abusive friendship; they’ll outdo you because they want the attention. If you’re tired, they’re exhausted, if you’re sick, they’re booking hospital appointments, if you’re sad, they’re suicidal.
 
They’ll turn a trivial thing into a mega drama that eclipses your problems. And if you don’t play along as an attentive audience member, they’ll lash out at you.
 
13. You never know what mood they’ll be in
 
Fluctuating moods are a subtle control mechanism, and abusive friends use this to manipulate you. People’s moods are typically stable from day to day, but an abusive friend might be on cloud nine one day and depressed the next.
 
You never know where you are with them because they’re so inconsistent, so you end up treading on eggshells and watching what you say in case you trigger a bad mood.
 
14. You can’t trust them
 
Can your friend not keep a secret? Perhaps they’ve revealed something you’re embarrassed about to others? Have you specifically told them not to say anything, but they ignore your wishes? If you confront them, are they sorry or do they dismiss your concerns?
 
15. You can’t rely on them
 
Whether it’s always turning up late, returning borrowed items, or paying you back money, an abusive friend is unreliable. They promise a lot but never deliver, and you keep giving them chances because they’re so convincing with their excuses.
 
16. They are two-faced about people
 
Does your friend constantly badmouth their other friends? If so, you can bet they’re doing the same behind your back, or did you think you were the only one they haven’t got a problem with? I don’t trust so-called friends who slag off their other mates. Why are they friends then?
 
17. Spending time with them leaves you drained
 
Some people are food for the soul. They leave you feeling uplifted, they’re always cheerful, boosting your confidence and making you laugh. Others suck all the joy from the room.
 
These emotional vampires are draining. They’re always complaining, but aren’t interested in solutions. They blow up minor issues into major ones and seem to have problems with everyone and everything in their life. However, they never rectify these problems.
 
18. They are always the victim
 
Well-balanced friends take responsibility for their actions. For instance, they’ll apologize if they’ve upset you. One of the clear signs of an abusive friend is shifting the blame. Abusive friends never take responsibility and even turn the situation around to make them the victim.
 
For example, they might say things like:
  • “I’m such an awful friend. I don’t know why you bother with me.”
  • “I can’t do anything right; I may as well give up.”
 
19. They like to give you advice
 
I have a friend who, whenever I tell her a story, always says,
 
“What you should have done is this.” or “What I would have done is this.”
 
I haven’t even finished the story; she doesn’t know what I’ve done, and I never asked her for her advice. She makes me feel like I’m constantly inadequate and can’t make my own decisions.
 
20. They are mean about you in public
 
My final sign of an abusive friendship concerns how they act around you in public. Are you the butt of your friend’s joke? Do they put you down or humiliate you in public? Do they call you names or insult you when you’re with family or friends?
 
Perhaps you always feel stupid in their company or feel intimidated when you’re with them.
 
What should you do if you recognize signs of an abusive friend?
 
Ask how this person makes you feel about yourself. Do you feel worse after spending time with them? Examine the reasons why this person is your friend; is it because they genuinely enjoy your company or for what they can get from you? Is there anything about the relationship worth saving?
 
I think that if you’ve read through all the above, recognizing signs, you probably already know what you want to do about your friendship. Perhaps you just needed clarification.
 
Final thoughts
 
Think of all the wonderful and unique qualities you offer as a friend. You have value and are under no obligation to stay friends if it’s an abusive friendship.
 
References:
 
Janey Davies
 
 
 
Sub-editor & staff writer at Learning Mind
Janey Davies has been published online for over 10 years. She has suffered from a panic disorder for over 30 years, which prompted her to study and receive an Honours degree in Psychology with the Open University. Janey uses the experiences of her own anxiety to offer help and advice to others dealing with mental health issues.
 
Copyright © 2012-2024 Learning Mind. All rights reserved. For permission to reprint, contact us.
 

 

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My notes: 
  • God the Source is unconditional love, not a zealous god of [some] dogmatic religions.
  • All articles are the responsibility of the respective authors.


Reminder discernment is recommended
from the heart, not from the mind
 
The Truth Within Us, Will Set Us Free. We Are ONE.
No Need of Dogmatic Religions, Political Parties, and Dogmatic Science, linked to a Dark Cabal that Divides to Reign.
Any investigation of a Genuine TRUTH will confirm IT. 
TRUTH need no protection.
 
Question: Why the (fanatics) Zionists are so afraid of any Holocaust investigations?
 

  
 
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15.09.24

We Are the Same

Tourmalayne trough A. S.

Posted on September 14, 2024

 

 

My dearest Earth brothers and sisters,

This is Tourmalayne speaking. I embrace you in love.

My dearest friends, how is the Earth journey going for you?

From my perspective, people are rapidly waking up there on Earth — although my perception of time is probably dramatically different from yours, so from your perspective it might still feel slow. Re-gardless, things are certainly moving in the right direction. And the excitement of our approaching meeting is making me feel young again.

Thank you for that. It is a great gift.

I know that many of you see us as some kind of higher beings that are elevated above you.

Now, on one hand I sort of get that. But on the other hand, us Pleiadians are looking to help uplift you and then co-exist with you as equals. We are not looking to be worshipped by you.

Ultimately we’re just people. Yes, we don’t suffer the trauma and pain and the blocks that come with growing up on Earth, and we’re raised with more love and more information and more options avail-able to us. But still, we’re just people.

To communicate that, I’m going to use a principle that is strangely unknown and under-utilized on your world, and it is: if people don’t see you as being part of their group, you can make yourself seem more like one of them by describing strong positive emotions you’ve experienced, strong nega-tive emotions you’ve experienced, and how you’ve suffered. So long as you’re being honest and speaking from the heart, I don’t think this is manipulation, I think this just helps the other person find their empathy.

So: us Pleiadians are human, just like you.

We get annoyed. We get horny. Sometimes we cry. Sometimes we’re naive or judgemental or impa-tient.

Sometimes we wish things were different than they are.

Sometimes it’s hard to accept that we live in a galaxy where some of our brothers and sisters have to fight reptilians and others, or else we all get killed or enslaved. And yes, we do worry about our loved ones in the military.

Sometimes we create something, and we’re proud of it, but other people don’t like it quite as much as we would have hoped.

Sometimes we try really hard to get good at something, and someone else just outclasses us anyway, and we know that this shouldn’t bother us but it still bothers us a bit.

Sometimes things seem just a bit easier for other people than they seem for us.

Sometimes we so desperately want to spend our life with this amazing person. And yet, sometimes they choose to be with someone else, and not with us. And it’s hard for us to see them together with this other person.

Why did this person who we love so much, choose them over us? Is that other person more desirable than we are? Are they better than we are? What makes them better? Why are we not good enough?

Or perhaps the person we love does choose to be with us, and initially we can’t believe it, it’s so magical. And sometimes, that fairy tale lasts, and we grow old together, surrounded by our loving children, and their loving children. And it’s just a warm bath of love and belonging.

Sometimes we have a child, and we love him or her so much that our heart just feels like it’s going to burst, it’s overflowing with so much love.

But sometimes, relationships don’t work out, and the breakup is so crushing. For a time, it feels like we can’t breathe. And then sometimes we later realize that it was partly our own distortions that were the cause of the breakup, no matter how tempting it is to point the finger at the other person. We learn from our breakup, but the scar never fully heals. Yet, that too is okay. It makes us who we are.

Sometimes, for a period of time, life is just effortless and everything just flows. And everything just seems so easy, and seems to come so naturally to us.

Yet, sometimes we take other people for granted. Sometimes we fail to communicate from the heart, we fail to say just how much we care about this other person. We fail to tell them just how much they mean to us.

Sometimes we just cruise through life on autopilot, and then suddenly the time has come for our fa-ther to transition to his next life. And then he’s gone. And we don’t know what hit us, or how to live without our father, yet still, he’s gone. And there’s an empty space where his laughter used to be.

And we would give anything to have just one more day with him. For us to hear our father say just one more time how proud he is of us.

And then when our grandson asks us where his great-grandfather is, we’ll try to hold it together and give a careful answer, but sometimes we just break down instead, and our partner will have to do the explaining, because at that moment we just can’t.

And then a short while later, our granddaughter takes her first steps. And it’s so beautiful, so magi-cal, but also bittersweet. Because our father would have so loved to have been there with us and to witness her first steps too. To see her smile.

If only he could have been there with us for this moment.

Yes, obviously our living situations are different. But ultimately we’re simply people, the same as you. Some of the ups and downs of life happen to us too, just as they happen to you.

We’re not perfect — if we were, we wouldn’t be in physical bodies.

Yes, some Pleiadians do resemble the picture of the idealized galactic that you have of us, but other Pleiadians are closer to your level of consciousness.

By the way, see what I mean, that if you share strong positive emotions, strong negative emotions, and how you’ve suffered, then you can help other people realize that you’re just like them, and that you might belong in their ingroup too? I think that can be a useful tool to create harmony and peace and equal relations between different people.

And yes, it really is true that if you take a random Pleiadian, then they would have done worse than the average lightworker has if that Pleiadian had been born on Earth in the normal way. Therefore, you really are doing amazing, and you are amazing.

I would like to propose the following. Instead of seeing us Pleiadians as some kind of higher beings, I suggest that you see us as humans who happen to be relatively unencumbered, due to the quasi-paradise we grew up in. We can teleport not because we’re Pleiadians. Rather, we can teleport be-cause we’re relatively unencumbered humans.

Furthermore, I invite you to see yourself as humans who can become relatively unencumbered too, in this lifetime, in the same way that us Pleiadians are currently relatively unencumbered.

Even today you have the opportunity to learn and grow, and most likely you already are growing rapidly. And many more opportunities for growth will open up to you after we land, because our galactic teachers and healers will be thrilled to work with you.

Therefore, the amazing beings here aren’t Pleiadians. The amazing beings here are those humans who are relatively unencumbered. And today that’s us, and later on in your current lifetime that might very well be you, and lots of other Earth humans besides.

The person we are today, you can become tomorrow, metaphorically speaking. And then you too will have all the qualities that you currently admire in us.

This also means that we are in no way better than you. We just have a head start because we grew up in an easier environment. But in time, it might very well be you who can teach us a thing or two about standing for the light in the midst of darkness, and how to be authentic in a world gone mad. Who knows those lessons better than you?

We know you think we are amazing. Well, we think you are amazing.

Given how tough life on Earth is, every single person receiving this message has done incredibly well. I love you, and I am so very proud of you.

 

Your star sister,
Tourmalayne

 

 
Channel: A.S.
 
 
For Era of Light
 
These channelings are exclusively submitted to EraofLight.com by the channeler. If you wish to share them elsewhere, please include a link back to this original post.
 
If you are interested in local meetings with other people also seeking first contact with benevolent ETs, then please see https://eraoflight.com/2024/06/19/hakann-local-meetings-for-those-seeking-first-contact-with-benevolent-ets/ . If you search with control-F for @, then you can quickly find email addresses of those who are organizing local groups. It’s also not too late to post a new (secondary) email address yourself to start a new local group, because we plan to keep linking to that post for the foreseeable future. 
 

 

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My notes: 
God the Source is unconditional love, not a zealous god of [some] dogmatic religions.

Reminder discernment is recommended.
 
The Truth Within Us, Will Set Us Free. We Are ONE.
No Need of Dogmatic Religions, Political Parties, and Dogmatic Science, linked to a Dark Cabal that Divides to Reign.
Any investigation of a Genuine TRUTH will confirm IT. 
TRUTH need no protection.
 
Question: Why the (fanatics) Zionists are so afraid of any Holocaust investigations?
 

  
 
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